The best piece of professional advice I ever got was this: “Don’t ever be afraid to wash the dishes”.
It pierced my heart because as an immigrant I was built to roll up my sleeves and get to work.
As I grew in my professional career, my bank account wasn’t necessarily growing as quickly. I had to make a decision to swallow any pride I had left and get a side hustle. I watched as my husband hustled after his main job, and after seven years of school, I rolled up my sleeves, too.
I remember walking into my first mall job at the age of 27 and feeling a bit disappointed in myself. I felt like I didn’t climb the ladder of success as fast as those around me. But I learned early on that the comparison trap is a soul killer. I needed to focus on my own priorities and my own goals.
I needed to build my self-confidence back up. I needed to realize that no one had forced me to take on this job. If I was going to sign myself up to do it, I needed to bring my A – game to the field. So there I went. I began working at the mall from 6:00-11:30 after my normal 9:00-5:00 shift three times a week.
I’ll be honest, it was absolutely exhausting and at times I really hated it. But it built my work ethic.
A few months later, I began teaching twice a week in the evening as a part-time lecturer, and I really enjoyed it. Then, on the weekends, I began cleaning homes. I’ll never forget cleaning the home of a very disturbed man who had about five cats – it was super awful because I was so allergic!
However, in between all of the side jobs, I recall trying to figure out so much about myself. About my goals. About what I wanted for the rest of my life emotionally, financially and physically.
Hustling birthed a different side of me. It grew a resilience that I didn’t think I had in me.
I’m grateful for my side hustles and was never ashamed of them. I did what I needed to do for that specific season of my life. I also became closer to discovering and shaping my purpose.
Never be ashamed to hustle. Be okay with washing the dishes.
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